The word betrayal is just so difficult to define as much as it is so difficult to deal with. But allow me to give you something about betrayal.
Part of the fantasy of every betrayed person is that one day, the person who hurt you will come back and answer all your questions and will apologize for hurting you.
But the thing is... they won't!
They'll die a liar & will feel good about themselves.
That's how selfish they are.
They can't give you closure, you have to find it yourself.
You get angry with them.
Then you get over them.
Bless them in your mind & have peace with yourse.
When or if that person comes back,
you can say; HI & GOODBYE in the same sentence.
I love you, Oprah! You made this so easy for me.